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Baby steps! We're right here when u wobble...(((((Dark)))))
Fri Nov 28, 2008 10:13 pm
DarkChyldesKiss Site Admin
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Thank you, I've been wobbling alot lately. Life doesn't want to give me a break.
My poor teeny tiny mom affectionately dubbed as gnome woman in chat. The woman who was always bringing me strange things to eat late at night. gnome woman is 4"10" if lucky at 75 #s or less soaking wet with clothes went for a doctors visit. First thing is they found she had a huge fibroid that was overwhelming her uterus (same thing I had in 96 that ended in a hysterectomy). She's ok with that, its something easily remedied with surgery. Hey, she doesn't need her uterus at her age. I tell her its a walk in the park. She'll be able to eat more and put weight back on.
She had an ultrasound Monday and got another call from her doc. They've found a growth or something on her liver which means a biopsy. I cried because I remember a previous biopsy she went through that hurt like hell. I cried again because she doesn't think she has the strength to deal with a problem with her liver. I cried because I've seen my mother through alot of health problems over the years. I cried because i might have to find the strength to let her go.
((((((((((((((((((((((((( Jan ))))))))))))))))))))))) Holding you tightly.
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Wed Dec 17, 2008 8:30 pm
PipSqueak
Joined: 04 Jul 2008
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Location: S.W. England
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I'm really sad to hear about your mum. Don't worry about crawling, right here to hold you up as you walk.
I've finished first semester til the end of January, just on coursework so will probably be about during your night(early morning) if you can't sleep!! I've also added you in2 my messenger (which I never use!) and will try to remember to logon in case you want to chat. Watch out for a random stranger saying hi!
Hugs,
Wed Dec 17, 2008 8:48 pm
DarkChyldesKiss Site Admin
Joined: 29 Mar 2005
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Location: Inner Sanctum
Joined: 29 Mar 2005
Posts: 3381
Location: Inner Sanctum
I thought I'd do an update on my mum since alot of people have been asking about her.
My mum went in for her hysterectomy with a positive mind. Things went a little funky during surgery because of previous intestinal surgeries. Her doc said he couldn't find her uterus because the intestines were in a such a mess so he had to straighten things out. Ok that makes sense considering the problems she had. She left the hospital 3 days after surgery! The wee woman was insisting that she would be better off at home which her doc agreed.
About 2 weeks after coming home she had some problems. We called an ambulance to rush her to the hospital. Something in the way she was acting said something else more serious was going on. It turns out we did the right thing. There was a huge infection going on inside her at the incision area. They sent us home without a worry. The procedure would be simple.
The next day, my mum was back in surgery because now they say that her intestines were knicked during her first surgery and the bowels were twisted.
My mom is a tiny woman. They cut her across then up and down!
The 2nd surgery took her strength away. She came home once they knew the infection was calmed down. She also came home with 24/7 oxygen, physical therapy and a nurse. Mum couldn't walk very well and who can blame her!
After seeing the 2nd surgeon, we find out there was never a knick to her intestines! He went down to the biopsy place and did his own tests. Everything we saw was the infection.
I became the caretaker at home again. My sis has helped out alot which I am so grateful for. She knows that I'm dealing with my own physical and emotional issues right now. My dad has been useless. Everytime something is needed done, he runs away to throw something in the garbage. I am finding nothing useful in him right now.
I keep hoping things will be easier but they just seem to get more complicated.
On the up side of it, my mum is walking much better! She is having an easier time getting up and down the stairs even though she has someone with her at all times. She isn't as out of breath at the top or bottom of the stairs now. Her appetite is increasing though it is being quirky! lol She asks for bizarre things that we run out to get for her.
My spine is raising hell! I think its time for a vacation. My sis and I are plotting a trip to Vegas soon! We both need it bad!
Anyways, until next time when I update my life lol
Wow, Jan... You are an amazing woman. And your mom must be too. I'm glad she is doing better. You've all been through so much. Sincerely, "J"
Thu Apr 23, 2009 8:52 pm
Tracey
Joined: 30 Dec 2005
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sending positive thoughts and healing to both you and your mum
xx _________________ I know I'm in my own little world, but it's ok. They know me here.
sometimes i wonder... ' why is that frisbee getting bigger'... and then it hits me
Thu Apr 23, 2009 9:10 pm
PipSqueak
Joined: 04 Jul 2008
Posts: 987
Location: S.W. England
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It sounds a nightmare, I don't know how you've coped.
I've really missed you on the boards n was worried about what was happening. Even kept an eye out n never saw you on msn.
You have done so well by the sound of things, sending lots of positive thoughts n strength to get you through the coming weeks.
Take care n enjoy Vegas!
Purp.
Fri Apr 24, 2009 7:25 pm
DarkChyldesKiss Site Admin
Joined: 29 Mar 2005
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I've been missing in action for awhile. I show up on-line to do my admin work which gives me a break. Yesterday was the first day I was actually on-line for any length of time.
Went to mum's doc appt today. She has now lost a total of 10#s since the last surgery. We are hoping that a med that will control the acid might also slow down her intestines. Doc said since her intestines are shorted the acid is pushing through things faster. We go back to the doc in a week to see if it works. If not, she may have to be re-admitted to be fed via a feeding tube so that they can put some weight back on her.
What will that do if the food is still doing the same thing?
I have a feeling this is going to be a very long road to travel and its not to Vegas.
You will all make it through this as best you can: wobbling, crawling, laughing, and crying. Nobody said it would be easy, but I know you'll make it through.
Sending healing thoughts your way,
Eilidh
Sat Apr 25, 2009 5:11 pm
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*hugs* to you Jan... prayers with you both. Sincerely, "J"
Sat Apr 25, 2009 8:25 pm
DanceofSorrows
Joined: 29 Aug 2004
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Sending warm and healing thoughts for both of you.
Dance~
Sun May 03, 2009 2:36 pm
PipSqueak
Joined: 04 Jul 2008
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Location: S.W. England
Hope you've had some better news...
(as you can see I'm not quite catching back up on my sleep )
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