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Phoenix Moderators
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removed _________________ "A little work won't hurt you bad, but just in case I'm wrong, you'll be smiling when they pronounce you dead." Amanda Marshall 'This could take all night
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Thu Jan 17, 2008 1:35 am
Khaleesi Moderators
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Phoenix,
Be ready later, I have something planned.
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Thu Jan 17, 2008 7:05 pm
Phoenix Moderators
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Mmmmmmm, i just love Your plans baby!
phoenix _________________ "A little work won't hurt you bad, but just in case I'm wrong, you'll be smiling when they pronounce you dead." Amanda Marshall 'This could take all night
Fri Jan 18, 2008 4:54 pm
Pumpkin
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Okay here is my two cents. I left a relationship of 7 years a little over a year ago simply because I was not attracted to her sexually. I am 40 and really could not fathom the idea of not ever having good sex again. So I had to leave. Leading up to that break up I went to counselling. I was told that sex constitutes about 5% of a relationship. Not much right. However if that 5% is on your mind 90% of the time than it becomes a problem. I loved my partner dearly and it was so difficult to leave her but I did. Have had my share of sex since then but now I am single and lonely as hell. Still holding out for the right girl. I hope one day I can have it all. For now I would rather have nothing if I can't have everything I want in a relationship.
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Sat Mar 29, 2008 10:54 pm
luvinmomofone1
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quote:Originally posted by Eilidh:
*adding my name to the yes-of-course-it's-possible list*
I come from a slightly different perspective than the women who have already answered here in that I am actually asexual and have always been so. (And yes, I am completely healthy.) I may not have any "experience" for comparison, but I don't feel like I'm missing anything. My ideal relationship would be with a woman for whom sex played no role -- another asexual lesbian, perhaps. However, I still think that even in sexual relationships, the act of sex is only one part of the relationship; communication, honesty, and openness are also very important.
a agree now tha i have researced it and wiht my knowledge i acknowledge that i think i am asexual also, i go to AVEN and post alot and read alot and know more than i did when i first made this post...got that was like a year ago ro someething _________________ ~welcome to my world! grab a cuppa and have a seat~/
Sun May 11, 2008 2:48 pm
Eilidh Moderators
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quote:Originally posted by luvinmomofone1:
a agree now tha i have researced it and wiht my knowledge i acknowledge that i think i am asexual also, i go to AVEN and post alot and read alot and know more than i did when i first made this post...got that was like a year ago ro someething
Nah, it just feels like a year. It's funny how life-altering experiences can shift time like that
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