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miss rebecca



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i want the world to know [i did it]

i've had a very busy week...

i re docorated my studio apt in like retro hippie style. lots of bright blues and purples it looks badass, if i do say so myself.

anywho, today i was at luch with two of my close friends (whom i was still in the closet) and i just blurted "i'm a lesbian and i'm with tahlia. wer're together like....for real" over cheese enchallidas. to my shock their reaction was along the lines of..."i knew it! we were just waiting for you to say something." they still love me for who i am and respect me as a person. i explained to them it wasn't the gender it was the person i was attracted to. the only part they really had trouble with was that i am with t who is a member of our "crew", and that we had been sneaking around for so long.

i'm so happy. these past couple of months have been torture. i feel like an elephant playing a piano has been lifed of my shoulders. this has been a great week! even though i had to endure the red head republican convention aka thanksgiving with the family. my mom is starting to come around too...well if you consider knitting me a rainbow scarf for a thaksgiving present. yes, we give thanksgiving presents...they have to be thoughtful and homemade though.

ok well enough ramblings from me...

good night, afternoon, or morning according to timezones ladies....
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Post Thu Nov 30, 2006 9:11 am 
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Post Thu Nov 30, 2006 9:33 am 
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Bad_Girl



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thats simply great n i understand how relieving that must be for u Smile
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Post Thu Nov 30, 2006 9:49 am 
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I think that is so sweet your mom knitted you a rainbow scarf!!!

Post Fri Dec 01, 2006 12:56 am 
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the girl I am with , who i am very much in love with, is the first girl I have been with. It is hard to come out, especially to thos you love, but congrats on doing it, and not holding it in as a secret! It feels amazing to be able to not hide about being in love......
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Post Sun Dec 03, 2006 11:14 pm 
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Scarlet_Dawn



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That's amazing. I'm so happy for you that it went well!!! Very Happy

Post Mon Dec 04, 2006 5:25 pm 
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findyourpassion



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I'm so happy for you that you were able to come out to your friends and that it went so well! Congrats to you!

Post Wed Dec 06, 2006 11:17 pm 
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congratulations rebecca! i am so proud of you! i am glad it turned out well. congrats on the apt. too. i know you been hurting so much over all this. it's good to see ya girl.
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Post Tue Dec 12, 2006 6:22 pm 
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miss rebecca



Joined: 21 Oct 2006
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awww. thanks everybody.
i mean, it's so great. nik is like so so so cool with it. i can't even explain how happy i am to know that i have my friends to talk to now about my relationship and they accepct it just like thay would if i was with a guy. it's so amazing it's almost surreal. this has made my gf and i so much closer beacuse it was something we did together.

so now that i'm out and personally i really don't give a shit who knows now. oooh--becides coworkers at my new job. (i'm such an emitional flip flop.) anyway, i'm glad i did it but, now what?
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you don't have to be rich to be my girl
you don't have to be cool to rule my world
ain't no
particular sign I'm more compatible with
I just want
your extra time and your . . .
kiss.

Post Mon Dec 18, 2006 9:07 am 
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Originally posted by miss rebecca:
awww. thanks everybody.

so now that i'm out and personally i really don't give a shit who knows now. oooh--becides coworkers at my new job. (i'm such an emitional flip flop.) anyway, i'm glad i did it but, now what?


Congratulations - you can now be true to yourself and your gf, that will be a huge weight off your mind Very Happy

As for 'now what' the thing with coming out is that is not a one off thing, there will be so many people who come into and out of your life on a daily basis and people you are yet to meet that you might choose to tell.

Good luck with gf - and for what it is worth - your Mum rocks!

Post Wed Dec 27, 2006 8:18 pm 
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The 'rainbow' probably wasn't accidental. In my opinion it was her way of saying 'I love you no matter what Wink

Post Sat Dec 30, 2006 4:16 am 
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R41N



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awwww what an happy ending. Congrats, how brave of you to make that move =)

Post Sat Dec 30, 2006 4:19 am 
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Dear miss rebecca
awwwwwww i so love happy endings and rainbows, Congratulations, i hope that you will both be very happy Exclamation Hugs to You Both Exclamation


with all my love and my deepest respect
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