Hoping some of you might be able to give me some advice.
Every since I can remember I felt a bit confused about my sexuality. I've never been a 'girly' girl, I hate talking about make up and fake tans and shopping... and I prefer to play PC games, go go-karting, paintballing etc... I just put all that down to being a tom-boy!
I've had a few boyfriends in my 26 years and Ive never been content with any of them. Ive only ever truly loved one man and even though i love him, I cant bear to sleep with him anymore. I've never actually enjoyed sex with any man. To be honest, I think the only reason I love him is because he's like my best friend... I'm SO confused!
I fantasise about being with women all the time. I wouldn't be doing that if I was 100% straight, would I?
Can someone please give me some advice? Am I a lesbian? I wish I knew
Fri Oct 27, 2006 10:26 am
Cavewoman
Joined: 06 Sep 2005
Posts: 2056
Location: nearby
There's only ONE way to find out.... follow your heart
sounds simple, huh?
but really, its the only way. _________________ " The sorcerers in life are created within each of us" --- Lynn V. Andrews
Fri Oct 27, 2006 4:58 pm
Loretta
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Posts: 70
Location: Somewhere.
I have never been a 'girly' teen either (though I had as much of a passion for wearing skirts and dress as a pricess in my infancy as the next gal), I only seldomly have patience for putting the simplest makeup on, I LOVE computers, I, I... I have liked boys all my life, always have been attarcted to boys, have had relationships that were really intense and fulfilling, and now am completely in love with a girl.
I can't stop thinking about her. I love her.
I don't know if saying this is useful at all, but maybe try to clarify your feelings before your sexuality. I got all mixed up about being bi or not when I realized a pair of weeks ago the nature of what I was feeling... but the only thing that strains my heart now... is that I may not be corresponded...
Ask your self what you feel...
P.S. - Mind you, I am 9 years younger than you and so probably is my advice...
Sat Oct 28, 2006 9:50 am
miss rebecca
Joined: 21 Oct 2006
Posts: 99
Location: neverland
i agree with cavewoman.
just follow your heart it usually never lets you down. _________________ you don't have to be rich to be my girl
you don't have to be cool to rule my world
ain't no
particular sign I'm more compatible with
I just want
your extra time and your . . .
kiss.
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