Lesbian...do u ever get used to that word? Goto page Previous1, 2
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NATURALLY
Joined: 17 Oct 2005
Posts: 23
Location: Belarus, Minsk
As for me I can't stand being labeled "lesbian" by strangers. Because it's seems like people use this word as a curse to hold somebody up to shame. Besides, I don't think I am a lesbian in the full sense of the word. But generally speaking I think this term sounds very beautiful and I associate it with beauty. And I like to pronounce it when I'm with friends. _________________ And if you believe in dreams or what is more important that your dream can come true - I will meet you.
Sat Nov 19, 2005 7:55 pm
lucky-E-leven
Joined: 28 Nov 2005
Posts: 8
Location: The Love Shack
I wasn't a big fan of any label when I was in the process of coming out. It seemed that most labels, though universal for us, meant something different to each person. Queer seems to be the most off-putting, followed closely by dyke, and on down the line until you get to lesbian, which is gaining HAWT points every day.
*shrug*
I use different terminology in different company, but yes you will get used to it and yes you will likely begin to feel a surge of pride while saying it when you reconcile any lingering societal conditioning within.
Good luck with the transition. Best thing that ever happened to me.
~lucky _________________
I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering in her mouth.
There are no good girls gone wrong, only bad girls found out. ~Mae West
Tue Nov 29, 2005 1:42 am
emmkob
Joined: 20 Dec 2005
Posts: 1
Coming out
Not sure I ever want to be "out" to the entire world.....I am happy with who I am with. Why is society focused on who a person shares their life with. I don't get it and never will. Doesnt matter that I am as happy as I'll ever be....it's different and wrong in the same sense for straight people. "My" happiness is never the issue...the issue is how wrong it is to the ignorant people in society...dont get it...tired of it!
Tue Dec 20, 2005 7:02 am
Tjedza
Joined: 15 Dec 2005
Posts: 12
Location: Zimz
yeah...
everyone knows i'm gay but they'd never ask me
it doesnt bother me when people say the word- but there was this one time i was at a party and was dancing with my girlfriend and this one guy goes "go do your gay $h*t somewhere else" then i got MAD and i ended up in a fist fight with the guy- i got seriously beaten up but... it was worth it. _________________ We love
Rubbing the nakednesses with gloved hands,
Inverting our mouths in tongued kisses,
Kisses that neither touch nor care to touch if
LOVE IS INTERNAL.
Tue Dec 20, 2005 8:19 am
beautifullyjaded
Joined: 04 Sep 2005
Posts: 289
Location: lost in love
Well, I'm about out as out can be without actually screaming "Hi, my name is Nikki and I love women because I'm a lesbian!" off the top of the Empire State building. Although that sounds like something I should do. As for being called a lesbian, I had a shirt made that says "Lesbian and Single" so I don't mind the term.
hugs,
Bj _________________ You've jaded me and that's beautiful
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