Cheating is cheating, but to you which is worse? Her cheating on you with another woman or with a man?
~KSLP _________________ Karla {KSLP} & Nic 4eva
Tue May 12, 2009 5:03 pm
MdmPrez
Joined: 16 Oct 2007
Posts: 803
Location: US of A
xoxo
Doesn't matter...man or woman, it's all the same to me.
Cat
Tue May 12, 2009 6:06 pm
Dark prism
Joined: 10 Dec 2006
Posts: 865
Location: California Dreamin, baby.
I think both are awful, but if it was with a man, it would disgust me and turn my stomach a bit more.
Dp _________________ "Fighting for this girl - on the battlefield of love."
Wed May 13, 2009 5:00 am
findyourpassion
Joined: 24 Aug 2006
Posts: 82
Doesn't matter.
Thu May 14, 2009 2:34 am
chordphrute
Joined: 04 Jul 2005
Posts: 1412
Location: Nouvelle Orléans, Louisiane
doesn't matter to me. it would hurt both ways..
that's why I stick to open relationships (even with the woman I live with). It saves the hurt and heartache. _________________ "You can't kiss and keep your eyes open, they'll cross forever" - Rubyfruit Jungle
Thu May 14, 2009 7:00 pm
Cavewoman
Joined: 06 Sep 2005
Posts: 2056
Location: nearby
a poll might better answer this
BUT ... cheating is a verb and not gender specific, if that helps _________________ " The sorcerers in life are created within each of us" --- Lynn V. Andrews
Sun May 17, 2009 4:55 pm
Rubbaduckyro
Joined: 25 Mar 2009
Posts: 23
Location: P-town, Oregon
I would have to agree with DP.
I think just the idea of thinking of her with a man would disgust me. Either way cheating would be terrible but definitely i think if she cheated with a man it would be worse. _________________ Freaks are the much needed escape from the humdrum. They are poetry.
Sun May 17, 2009 7:55 pm
Mairi bheag
Joined: 04 Mar 2005
Posts: 5094
Location: Scotland
Re: Cheating...?
quote:Originally posted by xoxo_everlastinglove_xoxo:
Cheating is cheating, but to you which is worse? Her cheating on you with another woman or with a man?
~KSLP
I don't think anyone needs to run a poll here for you to know that cheating feels bad, no matter what the gender of the people involved. I've been there - I have been cheated on, and I have cheated on others (believe it or not, even that doesn't feel good either). I was devastated by the former, and I am not proud of the latter. Even in open relationships the arrival of someone else can be difficult to handle - it shifts the balance of things around and touches on people's emotions in unforeseen ways.
At the end of the day, we are emotional beings, we experience hurt, we feel let down, even betrayed in some circumstances, and it seems as though we are not in control of these emotions at all. It does little good telling ourselves we are being irrational about the situation, because our emotions are not subject to reason.
Are you going through this at the moment? I hope your question was simply hypothetical. If you are going through it, you have my sympathy. Like I said - been there! It's hard to fight your way through the feeling of emotional annihilation, I know, and I hope you can tough it out.
If you're not going through this right now, then I hope you never do.
With all good wishes,
Mb
xx
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