I am new to all of this and lesbain culture if you know what I mean. I have a question about rings and also earrings.....When someone is in a lesbian relationship or committed do they wear a ring on a certain finger? Or do they also wear it on the ring finger? Also, if a girl is single do they wear rings or earrings in certain places to show other people that are single? Everyone is so knowledgeable on this site so I wanted to ask my dumb questions here.....hahahahhaha Or any other interesting information about this would be greatly appreciated Thanks Lily Of course the method to madness is a girl ha ha
Sat May 31, 2008 8:51 pm
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Great question Lily! Can't give you an answer personally cause I dont know either LOL but I just asked my lady about this and she said a single earring worn in the right ear indicates availability, in your left ear unavailable. She was a little less sure on rings but thinks that a wedding or commitment band can be worn on the ring finger of either hand.
I would also like to hear other people's responses on this topic.
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Sat May 31, 2008 10:56 pm
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When I was in a commited relationship I wore her ring on my left hand ring finger... just like you would a wedding ring. It had the same meaning to me. Now that I am single I wear my mother's ring on my left ring finger. This mainily is because of some scars on my right hand, but ... when a date asked me about it. Hinted that I was married to my kids. I was not offended, they are my top priority right now! Anyway... I am not sure about the earings and which side signifys single, but the ring part I could answer. Maybe you can combine Noni and my answers and combine them. _________________ Twilight, Her Royal Highness, The Queen of Fun and Games
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Sun Jun 01, 2008 4:33 pm
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quote:Originally posted by Noni:
...a single earring worn in the right ear indicates availability, in your left ear unavailable. ...
Neat! I've been wearing a single hoop earring on my left ear since a couple of years before I even knew I was a lesbian, actually. _________________ "My food is problematic."
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Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:10 pm
Gabriel Fallen
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dunno bout earrings, tho i always have worn a single in my right ear...and normally am available. when in a serious relationship, i typically do wear a ring for the person. i wear mine on my left thumb tho b/c of circulation issues. I have also worn a commitment bracelet for a girl. I guess the point is I see many forms of expression and they are normally only a standard to the person themself.
Sun Jun 01, 2008 9:03 pm
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Oh, I totally forgot to mention that I wear a necklace given to me by my lady love. I almost never take it off.
Likewise, in highschool I constantly wore a bracelet that the girl I liked had given me. _________________ "My food is problematic."
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