Joined: 05 Jan 2008
Posts: 20
Location: somewhere out there
I'm out
I already told my mom I'm a bisexual. She was shocked because I dress up like a typical casual girl and not those tomboyish stuff.
Well, I'm still thankful that she supported me. She told me to do what makes me happy and she'll always be behind my back. I said I really dont like boys that much, tried to be straight to like them but I never really got too interested to like them. I told her that I'm mostly attracted to women, maybe 80% of the time.
She was the third person to know this(first is my ex bestfriend, second is my present bestfriend) and right now I'm getting ready for the ridicule of other relatives and friends. I'll be expecting bible quotations, lectures, discriminations from them cuz I know they're homophobic. Well, I hope they dont get me at my boiling point by that.
I feel better now that I don't have to hide my feelings. _________________ "For one human being to love another; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks... The work for which all other work is but preparation."
-Rainer Maria Rilke
Fri Jan 11, 2008 7:16 am
Hawaiian
Joined: 01 Dec 2005
Posts: 816
Location: Transplanted to Africa
Aloha ((((jk)))),
Wow, congratulations on coming out to your Mom. She'll get over the shock, but it's great that she supported you even tho she was shocked.
Nevermind about what the small-minded will say. If those relatives can't accept it, it's their problem not yours.
Welcome, it feels good, well great, to be out doesn't it? Lighter and freer...
Happy for you,
~Hawn _________________ 'A'a i ka hula, e waiho i ka hilahila i ka hale.
Dare to dance, leave your shyness at home.
Fri Jan 11, 2008 11:19 am
Eia
Joined: 06 Dec 2007
Posts: 34
congrats!
i totally kno how hard that muct have been for you, and im on the same boat as you for the whole 80/20 bisexual thing.
I wish you luck with the rest of your family, that remains a step i am still afraid to take. but keep us posted!
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