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Sat May 30, 2009 10:08 pm
ghost
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hi rain,
fist of all. you are not responsible for someone else's life or happiness. tell this lady to take a flying leap and live her own life. remove yourself from the situation.
2. talk to this other lady.. is she really so unperceptive as to not realising what;s going on? if not, maybe the bonding is not as strong as you believe?
3. take care of yourself first.. that is the rule.
wishing you all the best,
ghost
ps if you want to talk some more, feel free to pm me. _________________
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((((((((((((((((((Rainandblues)))))))))))))))))))
Life seems to be in a constant state of flux and we no more get settled into thinking out life is going to be one way, then it turns in another direction.
It will be what it will be for you and this lady, and nothing anyone else says can change it. My only thoughts would be to always, always be honest with her, make only promises you will endeavour to fulfill and treat her (and yourself) as you would like to be treated. Good luck, always here to hold your hand, you have my email, use it soon.
HugZ, Noni _________________ Be yourself.............everybody else is taken!
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