Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. And she is beautiful.
Her eyes light with the wonders of the world around her. Her laugh is music, lyrics and a melody to my listening ears. Her love and warmth never fails.
My heart belongs to this girl. But she will never love me.
Why do we do this? Why do we fall so easily, when no one will ever be there to catch us?
When I'm away from her, it hurts. When she is near, I ache. Does it ever go away? _________________ Two roads diverge in a wood, and I took the one less traveled by. And that has made all the difference.
Robert Frost
Tue Jul 13, 2010 6:52 am
SWAY
Joined: 14 Apr 2005
Posts: 1560
Location: Upstate NY
Navy Girl,
I know exactly how you feel, as I have found myself in a situation where I felt the way you do. What you will do eventually is let her go, and love her from afar. The only thing to do to help yourself is to distance yourself and be happy in yourself. And to do that, you have to let her go....no matter what that takes.
Hope I helped a bit.
Hugs,
SWAY _________________ Giving myself to others has made me jaded...
Tue Jul 13, 2010 11:02 am
Cavewoman
Joined: 06 Sep 2005
Posts: 2056
Location: nearby
ditto what Sway said ... _________________ " The sorcerers in life are created within each of us" --- Lynn V. Andrews
Tue Jul 13, 2010 10:18 pm
Radiant Spectrum
Joined: 27 Jun 2010
Posts: 11
Hello Navy girl,
I have been in this situation several times. Each time, although I knew I could never have them, I took what I could get, and if that was only friendship, then so be it. Yes, it hurt. Yes, I know that ache. But I could not turn my back on the women I cared so deeply for. I was near them as much as I could possibly be near them without crossing a line.
The last one was the same way. I was accustomed to it after having gone through it several times before. I knew the drill. I stuck around, and enjoyed whatever time I had with her, knowing that it would never be anything more than friendship.
We are now together. It is amazing, and I still look back in wonder at the chain of events that happened to bring us together. I never ever would have thought it would turn out this way. She makes me ecstatically happy. If I had turned my back on her because it hurt too much to not be with her, we would not be together now.
You just never know.
Fri Jul 16, 2010 8:49 am
storybellz
Joined: 15 Dec 2006
Posts: 241
Location: U.S.A
I know exactly how do you all feel. And, dear Radiant, we should all be so lucky! I certainly hope that there is a chain of events that brings me and my crush together eventually. Because I love her so much!
There is a Spanish song called "hate me," and the point is that hatred is not the opposite of love. The opposite of love is indifference. And I often wonder if she is just indifferent towards me. I messaged her on Facebook, and never heard back. I sent her friend request, and it got rejected. But the funny thing is, the last time I saw her, she told me I was sweet. So I just don't get it! But I wish us all the best of luck!
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