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SWAY



Joined: 14 Apr 2005
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Location: Upstate NY
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What do you do when everything seems to lead to nowhere? What do you do when everything you've ever wanted isn't gonna happen? What do you do when all you want to do is give up on everyone and everything? What do I do? I don't want anyone or anything anymore...I don't know anything anymore...I don't know if I even want to survive....any of this....

I'm done....with all that ever was, is, and will be....
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Giving myself to others has made me jaded...

Post Tue May 25, 2010 5:33 pm 
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DanceofSorrows



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You take this moment as the valley in life... and take comfort and strength from every person your eyes can hold that each of us has been there and understands the depth of such sorrow and brokeness, the craziness within that words do not seem to describe.

There is hope. The valley does not give us the peaks or height to see the future. Perhaps that is the hardest thing about it. You are moving through it, and your honesty about its rawness and depth shows a wonderful quality within you, that your life and experiences are significant.

Hear me when I say... that I hear you. Holding you in my thoughts.

Dance~

Post Tue May 25, 2010 7:51 pm 
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Sway.... I can't even begin to tell you what there is to do... except fight to live. FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT. And don't you dare give up! .... message in your pocket kiddo.... remember? j

Post Tue May 25, 2010 8:13 pm 
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MysteryGirl
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Just keep waking up every morning.................for a long time it will be all you could do, and even that feels beyond terrible. Sad I'm not gonna tell you to do wonderfully uplifting things in that day you face, just survive. Drag your sorry ass through it as best you can, then sleep, and wake up again. Get thru another day. Breathe........sometimes that seems the stupidest comment anyone can make to you but there were times when I felt paralysed and panicky and ill because I simply wasn't breathing deeply enough. Again, it's the oldest advice in the book, but take each day at a time, if a day seems too hard to contemplate, then break it into morning, afternoon and night and if those blocks of time are still too large to envisage getting through, then damnit break it into hours. You can do the next hour, cant you hon?




HugZ, MG
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Post Tue May 25, 2010 11:40 pm 
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SWAY



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Location: Upstate NY


Thank you ladies....
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Giving myself to others has made me jaded...

Post Wed May 26, 2010 1:08 am 
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naturelover



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Sway, Sway, Sway....

What would you do if another Mels lady is asking the very same question? Based on your previous posts, I believe you would
1) feel for her
2) "hug" her
3) encourage her to think positive
4) be there for her

See, you are such a supportive, warmth, and fun lady. Don't let your mind trick you!

Our mind is very good at making us feel useless and hopeless, especially when we are tired. The trick, as I experimented it many times, is to think about all the wonderful people around you, like mels ladies! Wink

It's easier said than done. Try it? Please?

Post Wed May 26, 2010 2:20 am 
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wishonastar



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(((((((((((((((((((((SWAY)))))))))))))))))))))))))))
My long hiding gimpy friend,
I have recently been right where you are now and like MG says BREATH. its the best you can do at times. put one foot in front of the other and keep moving. remember tomorrow is another day and what doesnt kill us will make us stronger. If you need someone to listen send me a pm.
Just keep swimming Sway!!!!

Huge Hugs
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Post Wed May 26, 2010 3:00 pm 
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GreenEyedKiss
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((((((((((((((((((((SWAY))))))))))))))))))))))))

Hear me friend, as I hear you also....if you feel like you just can't find it in you to take one more breath, then I will happily take a deep breath for you and force it into your lungs

I've been there too, and nothing is worth nothing.

You have so many friends here lady...never forget it.

*keeping you in a warm embrace til you have to fight to get out of it*
never stop fighting.
Green
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Post Fri Jun 25, 2010 9:19 am 
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SWAY



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Thank you ladies, and I am taking the advice...breathing...one step at a time...going thru the motions....I will make it...and I know I have tons of friends here, old and new Smile

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. It means a lot.

Hugs,

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Post Fri Jun 25, 2010 1:35 pm 
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How about this Sway, when one of us figures this out, or at least have an idea, we'll pass it on to each other and we'll get ourselves out of this rut somehow together. Sounds good right? *big anime cuteness smile*
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Post Fri Jun 25, 2010 5:20 pm 
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Post Sat Jun 26, 2010 12:58 am 
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fortheloveofagood...
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remember you are loved... you are love, you are the light in the darkness, even through these hard times.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Sway)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

it's ok to find life hard, it is hard, incredibly so...

when i feel like you do, i need hugs, i need to be held, for someone else to say - it. is. going. to. be. ok. - to be strong for me, when i can't be. And we're all here to be that for you. As Gek said, one breath at a time.

Kx
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Post Sat Jun 26, 2010 9:43 am 
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Re: Done

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Originally posted by SWAY:
What do you do when everything seems to lead to nowhere? What do you do when everything you've ever wanted isn't gonna happen? What do you do when all you want to do is give up on everyone and everything? What do I do?


You wait for the dawn, Sway... It's not as far away as it seems. Meanwhile, lean on your friends, real life and online, and like K said, remember you are loved.

hugs
Pharos
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Post Sat Jun 26, 2010 1:43 pm 
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wys2uways



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I am here for you too....anytime at all.

Hang in there.

It WILL get better.

Post Sat Jun 26, 2010 3:43 pm 
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Sprout



Joined: 26 Aug 2005
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Sway....at the risk of sounding cliche....this too, shall pass. Whatever you may have going on right now...taking life one day - one breath - one step - at a time.

As the others have said, you have many friends here who will always listen with an open heart and a warm shoulder should you need one.

Take care,
Sprout
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