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Ellen_Degeneresisawsome



Joined: 05 Dec 2004
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Location: Oregon
I finally came out well not completly

So I came out to all my friends recently, but not my family yet. My friends were all very accepting of it lol i was amazed honestly, and now I am seeing someone she is amazing, and is helping me come out more but she is being patient with me also. It is amazing. at least she can help me and my friends can for now. I never thought this would happen.
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I do swear that I’ll always be there.
I’d give anything and everything
and I will always care.
Through weakness and strength,
happiness and sorrow, for better,
for worse, I will love you with every beat of my heart
shania twain

Post Tue Aug 04, 2009 3:50 am 
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Eilidh
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((((Ellen))))

Congratulations! Isn't it great when your friends surprise you like that?

Be gentle with your family. They may need some time, but they might also surprise you once they see how amazing your girlfriend is. Regardless of how they react, keep us posted. We're all cheering you on!

Hugs,
Eilidh

Post Tue Aug 04, 2009 4:52 am 
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Ellen_Degeneresisawsome



Joined: 05 Dec 2004
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Location: Oregon


thanks i am being more patient with them I am sure they know I am dating kim lol but that is all good funny thing is they dont really like her ha! but my friends do so whatever I love her that is all that matters lol. I am glad I found someone who actually is helping me with this.
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I do swear that I’ll always be there.
I’d give anything and everything
and I will always care.
Through weakness and strength,
happiness and sorrow, for better,
for worse, I will love you with every beat of my heart
shania twain

Post Tue Aug 04, 2009 5:14 am 
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Eilidh
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Well, if they think you are dating Kim, then could they think you might like other women in general and not just this one girl? In other words, if they already think/know you are dating a woman--even if they don't like her in particular--what makes you most uneasy about coming out to them in general?

~Eilidh

P.S. It's late and my brain may not be working fully. Hopefully my comments make some sense ...

Post Tue Aug 04, 2009 5:49 am 
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Tracey



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WTG (((((((((((Elle)))))))))))))))
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Post Tue Aug 04, 2009 9:52 am 
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Ellen_Degeneresisawsome



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The reason why is because kim and i do have an age difference not that matters to me but to my parents meh. But the fact that i think is because they will kick me out because they are more judgemental than anything but oh well.
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I do swear that I’ll always be there.
I’d give anything and everything
and I will always care.
Through weakness and strength,
happiness and sorrow, for better,
for worse, I will love you with every beat of my heart
shania twain

Post Wed Aug 05, 2009 12:54 am 
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Ellen_Degeneresisawsome



Joined: 05 Dec 2004
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Location: Oregon


((((((((((((((((((((((((tracey))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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I do swear that I’ll always be there.
I’d give anything and everything
and I will always care.
Through weakness and strength,
happiness and sorrow, for better,
for worse, I will love you with every beat of my heart
shania twain

Post Wed Aug 05, 2009 12:54 am 
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mfl



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Aww. That's made me feel warm and fuzzy. congrats. Tell your family soon. Finally live the life you were meant to live
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Post Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:38 pm 
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SexyKaz



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Hey Ellen,
There is a 12 year difference between Tracey and i.It bothered me at first but it does not seem to bother either of our parents or our friends.You never know they might surprise you.Either way good luck
*hugs* Arrow
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Post Mon Aug 31, 2009 7:17 pm 
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Ellen_Degeneresisawsome



Joined: 05 Dec 2004
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((((((((((((((((((mfl))))))))))))))) thanks ((((((((((((kaz)))))))))))))) thank you and it really nevr bothered me with kim but i know what you mean though.
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I do swear that I’ll always be there.
I’d give anything and everything
and I will always care.
Through weakness and strength,
happiness and sorrow, for better,
for worse, I will love you with every beat of my heart
shania twain

Post Mon Aug 31, 2009 7:49 pm 
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lina



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Hey Ellen congratulacions Smile you are a brave woman, i wish i had the courage to do the same you did.
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Post Mon Sep 28, 2009 3:09 am 
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littlephoenix



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you will soon realize how much your life will change, how much healthier mind and body you will grow by coming out, congrats to you and may you live a happier life Smile
much love Arrow
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